lib: skip source maps in node_modules

[legendecas]

Skipping source maps in node_modules by default improves the general
performance. Add module.setSourceMapsSupport(enabled, options) to
enable source maps in node_modules if it is needed. This moves
all source maps related API to node:module and this a step to
promote the source maps API to stable.

Files in node_modules are not authored by the user directly and the
original sources are less relevant to the user.

Micro-benchmark result:

                                                          confidence improvement accuracy (*)   (**)  (***)
es/error-stack.js n=100000 method='sourcemap-with-node-modules'  ***     27.04 %       ±1.50% ±2.00% ±2.60%
es/error-stack.js n=100000 method='sourcemap'                    ***     -5.01 %       ±1.08% ±1.43% ±1.86%
es/error-stack.js n=100000 method='without-sourcemap'            ***      1.98 %       ±0.94% ±1.26% ±1.65%

Be aware that when doing many comparisons the risk of a false-positive result increases.
In this case, there are 4 comparisons, you can thus expect the following amount of false-positive results:
  0.20 false positives, when considering a   5% risk acceptance (*, **, ***),
  0.04 false positives, when considering a   1% risk acceptance (**, ***),
  0.00 false positives, when considering a 0.1% risk acceptance (***)

[nodejs-github-bot]

Review requested:

• @nodejs/loaders
• @nodejs/performance
• @nodejs/startup

[H4ad]

It's missing doc for default values I think

[H4ad]

In the past, we always enabled the source map for nodeModules right? If so, having the default values to false won't be a breaking change? Maybe having this as true will be better if the my first assumption is right.

[H4ad]

Same for this one, this is probably breaking change if we keep false.

[joyeecheung]

Considering many enable source maps via --enable-source-maps I think it also warrants something like --disable-source-maps-in-node-modules or some other flag with a better name? Otherwise end users have to preload a script that invokes the API which is a bit of a hassle. We can set it to false by default for existing releases and in the next major release, flip it to true.

[codecov]

Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 89.21%. Comparing base (0e7ec5e) to head (94667aa).
Report is 8 commits behind head on main.

Additional details and impacted files

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Files with missing lines	Coverage Δ
lib/internal/bootstrap/node.js	99.57% <100.00%> (+<0.01%)	⬆️
lib/internal/modules/esm/module_job.js	99.25% <100.00%> (ø)
lib/internal/process/pre_execution.js	91.70% <100.00%> (ø)
lib/module.js	100.00% <100.00%> (ø)

... and 32 files with indirect coverage changes